Something much better is waiting
MUCH BETTER IS WAITING !
Edited by Dr. P. Kolandasamy, State NSS
Officer, Puducherry.
அடுக்கி வரினும் அழிவிலான் உற்ற
இடுக்கண் இடுக்கண் படும்.திருக்குறள்625.
The troubles of that
man will be troubled (and disappear) who,
however thickly they
may come upon him, does not abandon (his purpose).
- TirukuraL 625.
We
realize that we, as humans, often do something very similar to our little crustacean
friend’s reaction. There are times when we are so focused on self-preservation
that we overlook an obvious solution to our biggest challenges. In the case of
the crustacean, the obvious solution would have been to take a chance and leave
that spot. How many times do we overlook the warnings in our lives because the
fear of letting go and taking that chance is far greater than the pain of
staying in one place and suffering the outcome?
To
examine how we can embrace radical changes and not feel afraid or vulnerable. I
realize this is a quite a feat, but we can handle it. Let’s explore how we can
turn up our courage and turn down the fear. After all, what you fear is what
you face.
“The world is an amazing source of
experiences. It is inviting us to add our life to the mix.”
When
you enclose your world, you eliminate the possibility of exploration. When you
close yourself off from exploration, you also rule out any expansion your life
may be wanting to experience. The world beyond your experience is only as
frightening as you perceive it to be.
“People understand in direct proportion to
their level of perception.”
We
can’t expect everyone to see the world through our perspective. Each person
sees their life in accordance to their particular experiences or preconceived
beliefs. It is vital to remember this as you move through your life. No one
will ever be as understanding of your life as you. Please don’t ever forget
that you, and you alone, are the keeper of your life’s quality.
“I will not allow the key to my happiness
to be in someone else’s pocket.”
Don’t
think that another person can make you happy.You are the one who
controls your fate and only you can determine your true happiness. Others
may enhance your happiness, but they should certainly not control it.
“When the pain of hanging on becomes
greater than the fear of letting go, you will find that you can fly!”
There
is so much wisdom in this expression. Sometimes courage is found at the end of
the rope you have been hanging onto for years. Sometimes it is a world-weary
sign that is more acquiescent than courageous, but, nonetheless, your life will
demand the courage to move to the next stage of your life.
“Flawesome: a person who acknowledges their
“flaws” but embraces them anyway. Today, I will be “flawesome”!”
Sometimes
it’s our “flaws” that accentuate our truest beauty. Real beauty is not a mass
produced, “cookie cutter” kind of acquisition. Beauty can be found in the
wisdom of an elder’s eyes or in the freckles of friendly face. Don’t be afraid to
see yourself through a positive mirror.
Change your perspective and watch people follow your lead.
“It doesn’t matter what I am called. It
matters how I respond.”
If you
find yourself closing out the world because you feel you aren’t good enough,
reconsider that philosophy. What or who is telling you that you aren’t up to
the correct standards? Why are you listening to those words? Turn off the
television/computer/phone and look in the mirror. This is the reality from
which you need to operate. It is YOUR opinion that matters, no
one else’s.
The
best thing you will ever do for yourself, or those around you, is to fall in
love with who you are. Just like a romantic love for someone else, you can
acknowledge things that may not be exactly the way you want them. You can also
love beyond those shortcomings. Love can be blind for more than another person;
it can also be blind for yourself.
Allow
yourself to see your world through new eyes. Let yourself be brighter than our
little crustacean friend. When you are being continually battered by the waves
of life, change your perception and alter your direction. Something
much better is waiting on the other side of your fears.
Courtesy : Google.
******
Comments
Post a Comment